Contrary to popular belief, it is, in fact, quite possible to please a woman. Of course, it is often not easy, nor is it for the fainthearted. More often than not, it would entail moving a few mountains, jumping over the moon a few times, and wrestling a shark or two. Or, if you want to make your life a wee bit easier, you could simply exhibit a few desirable qualities that show exactly how well you were raised by your mother and are, in fact, a well-adjusted and functioning human being.
Here are some of the qualities that will make you a sure hit among the ladies:
This should already be a given and need not be said. However, there is still an alarming number of men out there who need to be reminded, so here we are. The fact of the matter is most men think that they can get away with infidelity. Well, they should also know that most women will not stand for it. There is absolutely no acceptable excuse for unfaithfulness, no matter how justified you might think you are. This will likely cost you your relationship. Or at the very least, your partner’s trust and respect. And we all know how hard it is to earn those in the first place.
If there is one thing that most women hate, it is flakiness. Being a paragon of reliability, therefore, will earn you a lot of brownie points. So show up when you say you will, do what you promised to do, and stick to your commitments. She will love you all the more for it.
Note that this should not be mistaken for aggressiveness. Being assertive means that you will be able to stand up for yourself and your partner as and when the situation calls for it. This is because although most women are perfectly capable of handling things on their own, they still do relish the idea of having a champion. It gives them a great deal of security and peace of mind.
4. A great sense of humor.
Everybody wants to be with somebody who can make them laugh – that is a given. This does not mean, however, that you have to be a comedian; just do not be a total downer, that’s all. So be able to laugh at yourself and your own mistakes, and find bright spots in any situation. A clean sense of humor is also more than ideal. After all, not everybody can appreciate dirty jokes, and some may even find it offensive.
Women like to look good, and let’s face it – that’s probably what you like most about them. So do return the favor and make an effort to exude attractiveness, as well. You are not likely to score any points for looking like a deadbeat degenerate. But do not overdo it, as well, because going all out metrosexual could also make your orientation suspect. Be comfortable and confident. And by all means, take regular showers, brush your teeth, and shave often. She will appreciate the effort.