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There are many non-verbal signs out there when it comes to dating. The signs a woman is attracted to you can be fairly easy to interpret. However, signs that indicate she could be sexually attracted are a bit more difficult to spot. Read on for signs that may indicate sexual intercourse is in your near future.

Signs of Attraction

Signs a woman is attracted to you can be varied, but they’re fairly easy to spot. She might place her hand on your hand or arm during conversation. If you’ve already dated for a while, she may spontaneously hold your hand while walking. If you put your arm around her, she won’t pull away. She will look into your eyes while talking with you. In other words, she will let you know – non-verbally – that you are first and foremost in her mind.

Signs of sexual attraction can be a bit more difficult to ascertain. This often leads to confusion and hurt feelings, so take a minute to learn the basics.  

Signs a Woman is Sexually Attracted to You

Body language plays a key role when determining if sexual intercourse is anywhere on your girl’s radar.

Whether you’ve just met or have been dating for a while, a woman with sex on her mind will position herself closer to you. She may touch your leg or press her body up against yours. Keep in mind that this can happen for various reasons, many of which have nothing to do with attraction. For example, it’s easy to be crushed up against another person in a crowded bar or club. If she keeps the contact longer than necessary, however, sexual intercourse may be on her mind.

Verbally, the signs a woman is attracted to you can be very obvious. She may make sexual jokes or innuendos, trying to determine your response. Keep in mind that this is not always an invite for sex – some women are simply more flirty than others. Hopefully you’ve gained a bit of insight into her personality, so make an educated guess.

A woman who is more shy – but still attracted to you – may never initiate a sexual conversation, but she won’t become offended if you do it yourself. Try cracking a PG-13 rated joke and gauge her response. One of the biggest signs a woman is attracted to you in a sexual way is her reaction. If she laughs, great! If she becomes visibly uncomfortable or comes right out and tells you you’re being inappropriate, steer clear – sex with you is not yet a possibility in her mind.  

How to Proceed

If you feel confident that a woman is sexually attracted to you, use your best judgment and plenty of respect. Press on a bit and see how she reacts. The minute you sense any resistance, however, slow down. Nothing will turn a woman off faster than a guy who doesn’t know when to back off.  

If you’re getting signals that a girl is not interested, you have choices. If you’re just looking for a hookup, you’re better off looking elsewhere. It’s very difficult to change a girl’s mind in the course of one night at a club. If you’re in a relationship, slow things down. Do things that are less romantic (but still fun) to build up your friendship before progressing to something more. Women appreciate a guy who can take things slow.  

 

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