Let’s face it – majority of women out there want to be that special girl who blows a man’s mind so effectively that it’ll take massive head injury for him to forget you. The good news is this actually quite achievable. And you won’t even have to resort to games, manipulation, or black magic, too!
So without much further ado, here are some of the most surefire ways to make yourself deliciously irresistible to your special guy:
1. Take care of yourself.
The fact of the matter is men are very visual creatures. Men adore superficial things like beauty, great skin, a fit body, and gorgeous hair and makeup. While they do not expect you to look like a supermodel at all times, they do appreciate you more if you care for your body.
Now, so-called feminists would probably scoff at this and say that making yourself beautiful for a man is an absolute no-no. So look at it this way, instead: make yourself beautiful for your own benefit. After all, there’s nothing wrong with being fit and healthy, and the confidence you exude when you’re comfortable with your outward appearance is absolutely priceless.
2. Be confident.
And speaking of confidence, if there’s one thing that men go absolutely crazy over, it’s that. A confident woman is one who knows her worth, what she wants, and how to get it. In short, she loves herself and is a happy person as a whole.
This is why most healthy relationships require equally healthy self-esteem from both parties. Honestly, nobody wants to have to deal with an insecure person. By being confident, you will not need a man to validate your life, nor will you complain about everything and put yourself down. And that, ladies, makes you automatically 10x more attractive to any man.
3. You are mysterious.
Now, don’t mistake mystery for bitchiness. These are 2 very different things. Being mysterious means not letting on too much and not over-sharing. Keep something for yourself, and by all means, keep him guessing!
4. Have your own life.
Most women make the mistake of making their man the center of their universe once they are coupled. This can be quite stifling to the average guy. After all, your entire happiness depends upon him. That’s quite a lot of pressure for anybody to have to deal with.
The key is to maintain the life you had pre-relationship. It’s important to remain enthusiastic about your passions and to keep pursuing your hobbies and your goals. Your life shouldn’t stop just because you’re in a relationship. Instead, it should grow.
5. Don’t be difficult.
Fact: Guys will go running to the hills at the first sign of drama. So don’t be a drama queen. Unfortunately, this is easier said than done. Most women, after all, can be over-analytical and have a natural penchant for drama. Be aware of this, and don’t give in to those impulses.
Remember that you are supposed to bring light and joy into his life (and vice versa), not additional stress. Take it easy and be a cool chick. Not only will he appreciate it, you’ll be even more irresistible to his eyes.